When one thinks of the word Connection the one thing that comes in mind is the concept of creating a sense of an incredible connection. Well, that is if you want to create feelings of a connection with the woman of your desire. Personally I have more fun practicing the type of communication that women respond to more than practicing the type of communication men responds too. After all there are things that only a woman could provide if they feel that they are connected. A wise man (chime in wise women) said that for most women creating a sense of an incredible connection and bonding is a required step before they will make a good ole boy slide into home plate. That is because for the emotional none infected, non-diseased or corrupted female allowing someone access to their essence is largely an expression of an emotional connection. Is this a valid statement? I didn’t think so but all I can say is I didn’t imagine the heights and doors that establishing a connection took me. I didn’t even have to say too much or nothing at all about their looks or asserts. Imagine saying these words and making gestures and work it in the conversation.

Have you ever felt an instantaneous connection with someone (point to yourself)? Like maybe as you were there, looking at them and you started to listen intently, it was like there was a cord of light (gesture from your solar plexus to hers) going from you to them? And as that cord began to glow with the warmth of that connection, maybe you were to imagine a time in your future (gesture wither to your left or to your right..) say six months from now, still feeling that sense of incredible connection and looking back on today (point back to you ) as having been the start of it…..

I think it’s so funny how some people can just do that and let it happen instantaneously (snap your fingers) because for me it takes longer. But I do find that during the course of an evening, as you really listen to someone (*point to yourself), and you start to recognize those values and qualities in them that you hold so dearly for yourself…(pause)…with me that’s when you can make that connection and really feel that growing bond…….

Connection